近两年由于陷入鸡娃的泥沼不能自拔，所以护肤、看电影还有这个公众号什么的都无暇顾及。说是“鸡娃”是抬举自己了，顶多就是努力跟上大部队的步伐~~~从来不以娃为中心的我，这几年将“以娃喜，以娃悲”发挥到及至，娃考好了，请吃饭；娃没考好，拉着人家絮絮叨叨的抒发半天心里的郁闷。搞得大家都以为我是有多重视学习，多功利的一个妈妈~~~
其实学习成绩从来不是我的评价体系里最重要的一项指标。在分数最为重要的学生时期，别人是想着提高分数，我天天想的和做的是怎样全面发展，不让人觉得自己是个只会读书的书呆子。所以对于自己的娃，我教育的底线是至少不成为思想狭隘、自私和自我为中心的人。但是这些都需要具有一定的学习能力，才能扩展自己对世界上人和事的认识，从而不会成为我最担心的那类人。这是我一直想跟娃说但是又担心说不清楚的事情。正好最近娃看了我给她买的一本儿童哲学书，尽然天天开始担心自己会死，担心到平日倒床就睡的人睡不着觉，还问我“既然人都要死的，那活着还有什么意义呢？”这真是难为我这种钢铁理科生了。于是找了好多书看，而这本“你想活出怎样的人生”就是批着心里鸡汤类的外衣，但是讲的却是异常质朴，并且我十分认同的原则性的生而为人真正重要的东西。
关于学习：
“……无论是谁，个人经验总是有限的。人类拥有语言，因此可以将自己的经验分享给他人，也可以倾听了解他人的经验。而且人类发明了文字，可以通过书籍互相传递经验，并对比不同的人在不同场合的经验，从各方面汇总。这样尽可能多方面地汇总经验，以不冲突的方式整合在一起，就是做学问。可以说，各种学问都是将人类至今为止的经验汇总起来形成的。人们从前一个时代继承经验，在此基础上再积累新的经验，才能从与野兽无异的状态进化到今天。如果每个人都像猿猴一样重新再来一遍，就永远都会和猿猴一样，绝对无法达到今天的文明。因此我们要尽可能钻研学问，从人类积累至今的经验中获得知识，否则耗费再大的精力也没用。在此基础上，竭尽全力解决人类发展至今仍然无法解决的问题，在这样的条件下产生的发现，オ是人类真正的发现，才能被称为伟大。” 我想你已经明白了学习的必要性，不需要我再多说什么了。如果想获得伟大的发现，首要任务就是拼命学习，登上这个时代的学问顶峰，然后在顶峰上工作。但是，为了在顶峰上工作，为了登上顶峰。小哥白尼，你要牢记，不能丢失你半夜醒来后对疑问穷追不含的精神。
关于看待事物的方法：
“人习惯以自己为中心思考、判断事物；即使长大了，这种特性同样根深蒂固。等你长大了就会明白，在广大的世界上，能完全改掉以自己为中心思考的习惯的人，其实非常稀少。尤其碰到事关利害得失的时候，要跳脱自己的立场作出正确的判断，实在很难。面对利害得失如果还能抱持像哥白尼那样的想法，可说是非常了不起。大多数人往往陷入自私的想法，所以看不清真相，只看得到对自己有利的事。 如果人一直坚信地球是宇宙的中心，恐怕就无法了解宇宙真正的样貌；同样地，总是以自我为中心判断事物，也会让人不了解周遭事物的真相。这种人一定看不清重大的真理。平时我们当然会说是太阳升起、落下。有关这些日常的事物，按照习惯这么说并无大碍。不过，如果想了解宇宙的重大真理，就得舍弃那样得想法。世上其他事物其实也一样。”
关于对人的看法：
“重要的不是世俗的眼光或其他，而是你自己必须从灵魂深处了解人到底是什么地方了不起。然后，必须激发自己的向上心，打从心底想成为了不起的人。好事就是好事，坏事就是坏事，逐一判断好坏的时候，以及做你判断的好事的时候，都得贯彻从你胸中涌现的热切的情感。我并不是要模仿北见的口头禅，不过你必须有［不管谁怎么说］的决心。 如果你不这么做，即使我和你母亲期望你成为了不起的人，即使你自己也想成为了不起的人，恐怕你只能成为［看起来了不起的人］，不能成为真正［了不起的人］。世界上有许多人喜欢表现得让别人觉得他们很了不起，这些人最在意别人怎么看自己，总是忽略了真正的自己、原来的自己是什么样的人。我不希望你成为这样的人。 所以，小哥白尼，我再重复一次，你必须珍惜自己的感受和深深感动的事。不要忘记这些事，而且要认真思考这些事的意义。”
关于贫穷：
“小哥白尼，随着你长大成人，你会渐渐知道：贫穷的人在生活中基本上都很自卑。褴楼的衣衫、脏乱的家，还有每天简单的食物，都很容易就让他们无地自容。当然，也有生来贫穷但依然很自信的高尚入士，但在这世上，很多人都会在有钱人面前完全抬不起头来，好像自己低人一等，只会胡乱点头哈腰。这种人自然得不到别人的尊重，倒不是因为他们没钱，而是因为他们卑怯的性格，受人蔑视也没办法。但是，小哥白尼，就算是自導心很强的人，一旦陷入贫穷，也会因某些事而感到自卑，这是人之常情。所以，我们不要忘记时时谨言慎行，以免让他们感到自卑。对于人来说，再没有什么比自尊心受伤更糟糕的体验了。贫穷的人常会有那样糟糕的体验，因此千万不能在无意中伤害他们容易受伤的自尊心。 从道理上说，就算贫穷，也不应该因此而自卑。人真正的价值并不存在于穿着、住宅和食物中。无论穿着多么名贵的衣服、住着多么奢华的宅邸，笨蛋就是笨蛋，小人就是小人，作为人的价值不会因此而提高。若是心灵高洁、博学多闻的人，即使贫穷、也是值得尊敬的、了不起的人。因此，若人为自己拥有的价值抱有真正的自信，那么无论境遇如何，都可以生得心如止水。作为人，在贫穷的境中不该看低自己，在富移的生活中也不要自以为是。自始至终，我们都必须着眼于自己作为人的价值。如果还因贫穷而自卑，就证明作为人还远未合格。”
……好吧，希望于辰辰共勉之~~~
[url=https://mega4web.cc/]мега рабочая ссылка[/url] – мега шоп, mega market
Hi there, I found your blog by way of Google while looking for a related matter, your website got here up, it appears
to be like great. I have bookmarked it in my google bookmarks.
Hello there, simply become aware of your weblog thru Google, and
found that it’s really informative. I’m gonna be careful for brussels.
I will be grateful if you proceed this in future.
Lots of other people might be benefited from your writing.
Cheers!
web site best social media services.
Medikamente-Tabletten online in Amsterdam kaufen Teva Culemborg medicamentos
en vente libre au Portugal
Asking questions are in fact pleasant thing if you are not understanding anything fully,
however this article offers good understanding even.
Free [url=https://cuminporn.com/4k+nude+wallpaper]4k nude wallpapers[/url] and adult images
I am curious to find out what blog platform you happen to
be utilizing? I’m experiencing some small security issues with
my latest website and I’d like to find something more secure.
Do you have any solutions?
I visited multiple web sites except the audio quality for
audio songs current at this web site is truly wonderful.
Incredible story there. What occurred after? Thanks!
Appreciation to my father who shared with me concerning this web site,
this web site is in fact remarkable.
Howdy superb website! Does running a blog such as this require a lot of work?
I’ve very little expertise in coding however I was hoping to start my own blog soon. Anyways, if
you have any ideas or tips for new blog owners please share.
I understand this is off topic however I just wanted to
ask. Kudos!
thx
I delight in, cause I found just what I was looking for.
You’ve ended my 4 day lengthy hunt! God Bless you man. Have a great day.
Bye
Amazing things here. I’m very satisfied to see your article.
Thanks a lot and I am looking forward to contact you.
Will you kindly drop me a mail?
This article gives clear idea in favor of the new visitors of
blogging, that truly how to do blogging and site-building.
hey there and thank you for your info – I’ve certainly picked up anything new from right here.
I did however expertise several technical points using this site, since I experienced
to reload the site a lot of times previous to I could
get it to load correctly. I had been wondering if your hosting
is OK? Not that I am complaining, but sluggish loading instances times will sometimes affect your placement in google and could
damage your high quality score if ads and marketing with
Adwords. Anyway I’m adding this RSS to my e-mail
and can look out for a lot more of your respective interesting content.
Ensure that you update this again very soon.
Great article.
That is really attention-grabbing, You are an overly professional blogger.
I have joined your feed and sit up for searching
for extra of your magnificent post. Also, I have shared your website in my
social networks
I visited many web sites except the audio feature for audio songs
current at this website is really wonderful.
Great post but I was wanting to know if you
could write a litte more on this subject? I’d be very grateful if you
could elaborate a little bit more. Bless you!
Hello everyone, it’s my first pay a quick visit at this web site, and piece of
writing is in fact fruitful for me, keep up posting these posts.
This is my first time pay a visit at here and i am really
happy to read everthing at one place.
That is really fascinating, You’re an excessively professional blogger.
I have joined your rss feed and sit up for in search of more of
your wonderful post. Additionally, I’ve shared your website in my social networks
Trix – официальный сайт – сервис мгновенных игр
[url=https://Xnova.fun]нова вход[/url] – нова дарк, нова darknet ссылка
Hi! I’ve been following your web site for a long time
now and finally got the courage to go ahead and give you a
shout out from Huffman Tx! Just wanted to tell you
keep up the excellent job!
[url=https://mega4web.cc/]мега зеркало[/url] – мега сайт, mega даркнет
Nicely put, Cheers.
prix du medicamentos en Belgique Angenerico
Olten médicaments comment prendre
This is a really good tip particularly to those new to the blogosphere.
Short but very accurate information… Thanks for sharing
this one. A must read post!
Link exchange is nothing else except it is simply placing the other person’s blog
link on your page at appropriate place and other person will also do similar in support of you.
Excellent post. I will be dealing with some of these issues as well..
You actually make it seem so easy with your presentation but I find this topic to
be really something which I think I would never understand.
It seems too complex and very broad for me. I am looking forward for your next post,
I will try to get the hang of it!
Thank you, I like it!
puis-je prendre des drogues illicites hexal Tournai compra de medicamentos
en Bélgica confiable
My family members every time say that I am killing my time
here at web, but I know I am getting familiarity all the time by reading thes fastidious articles.
What i do not realize is in reality how you are now not actually a lot more well-favored than you might be now.
You are very intelligent. You know therefore considerably in the case of this subject, produced me in my view consider it from a lot
of varied angles. Its like men and women are not fascinated until
it is one thing to accomplish with Lady gaga! Your own stuffs outstanding.
At all times maintain it up!
This text is worth everyone’s attention.
When can I find out more?
Medikamente ohne Rezept erforderlich 1A Pharma Pernis Medikamente
in Marokko zum Verkauf
Hello great blog! Does running a blog such as this
require a lot of work? I’ve virtually no knowledge of coding but I was hoping to start my own blog in the near future.
Anyway, if you have any suggestions or techniques for new blog owners please share.
I understand this is off topic nevertheless I just needed to ask.
Appreciate it!
일본 소비세 환급, 네오리아와 함께라면 간편하고 안전하게
일본 소비세 환급은 복잡하고 까다로운 절차로 많은 구매대행 셀러들이 어려움을 겪는 분야입니다. 네오리아는 다년간의 경험과 전문성을 바탕으로 신뢰할 수 있는 서비스를 제공하며, 일본 소비세 환급 과정을 쉽고 효율적으로 처리합니다.
1. 일본 소비세 환급의 필요성과 네오리아의 역할
네오리아는 일본 현지 법인을 설립하지 않아도 합법적인 방식으로 소비세 환급을 받을 수 있는 솔루션을 제공합니다. 이를 통해:
한국 개인사업자와 법인 사업자 모두 간편하게 환급 절차를 진행할 수 있습니다.
일본의 복잡한 서류 심사를 최소화하고, 현지 로컬 세리사와 협력하여 최적의 결과를 보장합니다.
2. 소비세 환급의 주요 특징
일본 연고가 없어도 가능: 일본에 사업자가 없더라도 네오리아는 신뢰할 수 있는 서비스를 통해 소비세 환급을 지원합니다.
서류 작성 걱정 해결: 잘못된 서류 제출로 환급이 거절될까 걱정될 필요 없습니다. 네오리아의 전문 대응팀이 모든 과정을 정밀하게 관리합니다.
현지 법인 운영자를 위한 추가 지원: 일본 내 개인사업자나 법인 운영자에게는 세무 감사와 이슈 대응까지 포함된 고급 서비스를 제공합니다.
3. 네오리아 서비스의 장점
전문성과 신뢰성: 정부로부터 인정받은 투명성과 세무 분야의 우수한 성과를 자랑합니다.
맞춤형 서포트: 다양한 사례를 통해 쌓은 경험으로 고객이 예상치 못한 어려움까지 미리 해결합니다.
로컬 업체에서 불가능한 고급 서비스: 한국인 고객을 위해 정확하고 간편한 세무회계 및 소비세 환급 서비스를 제공합니다.
4. 네오리아가 제공하는 혜택
시간 절약: 복잡한 절차와 서류 준비 과정을 전문가가 대신 처리합니다.
안심 환급: 철저한 관리와 세심한 대응으로 안전하게 환급을 받을 수 있습니다.
추가 서비스: 세무감사와 이슈 발생 시 즉각적인 지원으로 사업의 연속성을 보장합니다.
네오리아는 소비세 환급이 복잡하고 어렵다고 느껴지는 고객들에게 최적의 길잡이가 되어드립니다. 신뢰를 바탕으로 한 전문적인 서비스로, 더 이상 소비세 환급 문제로 고민하지 마세요!
Hello there! This is my first visit to your blog!
We are a collection of volunteers and starting a new project
in a community in the same niche. Your blog provided us valuable information to work on. You have done a outstanding job!
I don’t think the title of your article matches the content lol. Just kidding, mainly because I had some doubts after reading the article.
Awesome issues here. I am very satisfied to look your post.
Thanks a lot and I’m having a look forward to contact you.
Will you please drop me a mail?
Please let me know if you’re looking for a article author for
your blog. You have some really great posts and I believe I would be a good asset.
If you ever want to take some of the load off, I’d love to write some material for your blog in exchange for a link back to mine.
Please blast me an e-mail if interested. Cheers!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I really appreciate your efforts and I will be waiting
for your further write ups thanks once again.
Hello There. I found your weblog using msn. That is a very smartly written article.
I’ll be sure to bookmark it and return to read more of your helpful
info. Thanks for the post. I’ll certainly return.
Wow, awesome blog format! How lengthy have you been blogging for?
you made blogging glance easy. The total glance of your site is fantastic, as smartly as the content material!
Great blog here! Also your web site loads up
fast! What web host are you using? Can I get your affiliate link to your host?
I wish my site loaded up as quickly as yours lol
Medikamentenpreise in der Schweiz Apofri Chiny medicamentos
similares