近两年由于陷入鸡娃的泥沼不能自拔，所以护肤、看电影还有这个公众号什么的都无暇顾及。说是“鸡娃”是抬举自己了，顶多就是努力跟上大部队的步伐~~~从来不以娃为中心的我，这几年将“以娃喜，以娃悲”发挥到及至，娃考好了，请吃饭；娃没考好，拉着人家絮絮叨叨的抒发半天心里的郁闷。搞得大家都以为我是有多重视学习，多功利的一个妈妈~~~
其实学习成绩从来不是我的评价体系里最重要的一项指标。在分数最为重要的学生时期，别人是想着提高分数，我天天想的和做的是怎样全面发展，不让人觉得自己是个只会读书的书呆子。所以对于自己的娃，我教育的底线是至少不成为思想狭隘、自私和自我为中心的人。但是这些都需要具有一定的学习能力，才能扩展自己对世界上人和事的认识，从而不会成为我最担心的那类人。这是我一直想跟娃说但是又担心说不清楚的事情。正好最近娃看了我给她买的一本儿童哲学书，尽然天天开始担心自己会死，担心到平日倒床就睡的人睡不着觉，还问我“既然人都要死的，那活着还有什么意义呢？”这真是难为我这种钢铁理科生了。于是找了好多书看，而这本“你想活出怎样的人生”就是批着心里鸡汤类的外衣，但是讲的却是异常质朴，并且我十分认同的原则性的生而为人真正重要的东西。
关于学习：
“……无论是谁，个人经验总是有限的。人类拥有语言，因此可以将自己的经验分享给他人，也可以倾听了解他人的经验。而且人类发明了文字，可以通过书籍互相传递经验，并对比不同的人在不同场合的经验，从各方面汇总。这样尽可能多方面地汇总经验，以不冲突的方式整合在一起，就是做学问。可以说，各种学问都是将人类至今为止的经验汇总起来形成的。人们从前一个时代继承经验，在此基础上再积累新的经验，才能从与野兽无异的状态进化到今天。如果每个人都像猿猴一样重新再来一遍，就永远都会和猿猴一样，绝对无法达到今天的文明。因此我们要尽可能钻研学问，从人类积累至今的经验中获得知识，否则耗费再大的精力也没用。在此基础上，竭尽全力解决人类发展至今仍然无法解决的问题，在这样的条件下产生的发现，オ是人类真正的发现，才能被称为伟大。” 我想你已经明白了学习的必要性，不需要我再多说什么了。如果想获得伟大的发现，首要任务就是拼命学习，登上这个时代的学问顶峰，然后在顶峰上工作。但是，为了在顶峰上工作，为了登上顶峰。小哥白尼，你要牢记，不能丢失你半夜醒来后对疑问穷追不含的精神。
关于看待事物的方法：
“人习惯以自己为中心思考、判断事物；即使长大了，这种特性同样根深蒂固。等你长大了就会明白，在广大的世界上，能完全改掉以自己为中心思考的习惯的人，其实非常稀少。尤其碰到事关利害得失的时候，要跳脱自己的立场作出正确的判断，实在很难。面对利害得失如果还能抱持像哥白尼那样的想法，可说是非常了不起。大多数人往往陷入自私的想法，所以看不清真相，只看得到对自己有利的事。 如果人一直坚信地球是宇宙的中心，恐怕就无法了解宇宙真正的样貌；同样地，总是以自我为中心判断事物，也会让人不了解周遭事物的真相。这种人一定看不清重大的真理。平时我们当然会说是太阳升起、落下。有关这些日常的事物，按照习惯这么说并无大碍。不过，如果想了解宇宙的重大真理，就得舍弃那样得想法。世上其他事物其实也一样。”
关于对人的看法：
“重要的不是世俗的眼光或其他，而是你自己必须从灵魂深处了解人到底是什么地方了不起。然后，必须激发自己的向上心，打从心底想成为了不起的人。好事就是好事，坏事就是坏事，逐一判断好坏的时候，以及做你判断的好事的时候，都得贯彻从你胸中涌现的热切的情感。我并不是要模仿北见的口头禅，不过你必须有［不管谁怎么说］的决心。 如果你不这么做，即使我和你母亲期望你成为了不起的人，即使你自己也想成为了不起的人，恐怕你只能成为［看起来了不起的人］，不能成为真正［了不起的人］。世界上有许多人喜欢表现得让别人觉得他们很了不起，这些人最在意别人怎么看自己，总是忽略了真正的自己、原来的自己是什么样的人。我不希望你成为这样的人。 所以，小哥白尼，我再重复一次，你必须珍惜自己的感受和深深感动的事。不要忘记这些事，而且要认真思考这些事的意义。”
关于贫穷：
“小哥白尼，随着你长大成人，你会渐渐知道：贫穷的人在生活中基本上都很自卑。褴楼的衣衫、脏乱的家，还有每天简单的食物，都很容易就让他们无地自容。当然，也有生来贫穷但依然很自信的高尚入士，但在这世上，很多人都会在有钱人面前完全抬不起头来，好像自己低人一等，只会胡乱点头哈腰。这种人自然得不到别人的尊重，倒不是因为他们没钱，而是因为他们卑怯的性格，受人蔑视也没办法。但是，小哥白尼，就算是自導心很强的人，一旦陷入贫穷，也会因某些事而感到自卑，这是人之常情。所以，我们不要忘记时时谨言慎行，以免让他们感到自卑。对于人来说，再没有什么比自尊心受伤更糟糕的体验了。贫穷的人常会有那样糟糕的体验，因此千万不能在无意中伤害他们容易受伤的自尊心。 从道理上说，就算贫穷，也不应该因此而自卑。人真正的价值并不存在于穿着、住宅和食物中。无论穿着多么名贵的衣服、住着多么奢华的宅邸，笨蛋就是笨蛋，小人就是小人，作为人的价值不会因此而提高。若是心灵高洁、博学多闻的人，即使贫穷、也是值得尊敬的、了不起的人。因此，若人为自己拥有的价值抱有真正的自信，那么无论境遇如何，都可以生得心如止水。作为人，在贫穷的境中不该看低自己，在富移的生活中也不要自以为是。自始至终，我们都必须着眼于自己作为人的价值。如果还因贫穷而自卑，就证明作为人还远未合格。”
……好吧，希望于辰辰共勉之~~~
Regular repairs and tune-ups make sure that
your AC remains in the best shape and lasts long and,
thus, enables you to celebrate the summer in whatever way you find convenient.
The higher the score, the site has authority recognized by Google and can be categorized as a source of quality backlinks. Links Using Dofollow Tags
Very great post. I simply stumbled upon your weblog and wanted to
say that I have really loved browsing your weblog posts. After all I will be
subscribing for your feed and I hope you write again soon!
I’m gone to inform my little brother, that he should also pay a visit this web site on regular basis to take updated from most up-to-date gossip.
L’investissement boursier en ligne séduit de plus en plus d’investisseurs grâce à
la démocratisation des plateformes numériques.
Grâce à des courtiers régulés, tout nouveau trader peut placer ses premiers ordres en quelques
minutes.
Afin de réussir, il est primordial de étudier l’analyse fondamentale et
de établir un plan de trading.
La protection du capital passe par la limitation de l’effet de levier, ce qui, au final, réduit le stress.
Avant d’investir des fonds réels, l’entraînement sur un simulateur est recommandé, pour observer le comportement du marché sans risque.
Finalement, le trader discipliné peut construire un revenu durable, à condition de rester
informé.
Good job for bringing something important to the internet!
Superb, what a web site it is! This weblog provides valuable data to us, keep
it up.
W takich przypadkach najłatwiejszym sposobem na kontynuowanie gry w ulubione automaty jest skorzystanie z aktualnej domeny. Warto jednak zauważyć, że takie sytuacje zdarzają się rzadko – zaledwie 2-3 razy w roku, więc nie ma powodów do większych obaw.
Deneme Bonusu Veren Siteler 2025 – Güvenilir Bahis Siteleri
My programmer is trying to persuade me to move to .net from PHP.
I have always disliked the idea because of the costs.
But he’s tryiong none the less. I’ve been using
WordPress on several websites for about a year and am nervous about switching to another platform.
I have heard fantastic things about blogengine.net. Is there a way I can transfer all my wordpress posts
into it? Any help would be greatly appreciated!
Dental implant, eksik dişlerin yerine kullanılan titanyumdan yapılmış yapay diş kökleridir.
Saved as a favorite, I love your web site!
This is a great tip especially to those new to the blogosphere.
Simple but very precise information… Thank you for
sharing this one. A must read post!
We are a group of volunteers and starting a
brand new scheme in our community. Your web site offered us with helpful info to work on. You’ve performed an impressive task and our entire
group will likely be thankful to you.
I pay a visit each day some web pages and sites to read content, but this web site presents feature based writing.
Every weekend i used to pay a visit this website, as i want enjoyment,
as this this site conations actually pleasant funny stuff too.
nice
Hmm is anyone else encountering problems with the pictures on this blog
loading? I’m trying to find out if its a problem on my end or if it’s the blog.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Hi, I do think this is an excellent site. I stumbledupon it 😉
I will return once again since I book marked it.
Money and freedom is the greatest way to change, may you be rich and
continue to guide others.
I loved as much as you will receive carried out right here.
The sketch is attractive, your authored subject matter stylish.
nonetheless, you command get bought an shakiness over that you wish be delivering the following.
unwell unquestionably come more formerly again since exactly the same nearly a lot often inside case
you shield this increase.
It is appropriate time to make some plans for the future and it is time to
be happy. I’ve read this post and if I could I
want to suggest you some interesting things or suggestions.
Maybe you can write next articles referring to this article.
I wish to read even more things about it!
Greetings from Florida! I’m bored to tears at work so I
decided to check out your site on my iphone during lunch break.
I love the info you provide here and can’t wait to take a look when I
get home. I’m surprised at how quick your blog loaded on my phone ..
I’m not even using WIFI, just 3G .. Anyways, good blog!
Polikliniğimiz multidisipliner çalışma anlayışını benimsemiş, kendini sürekli geliştiren, vizyon sahibi, teknolojiyi takip eden, nitelikli bir uzman kadrosuna sahiptir.
Herkesin ihtiyaçları farklıdır, bu nedenle dişlerinizi ne sıklıkta kontrol ettirmeniz gerektiği konusunda diş hekiminizle sohbet edin.
Helpful information. Lucky me I discovered your site unintentionally,
and I am shocked why this coincidence didn’t happened in advance!
I bookmarked it.
Hi would you mind sharing which blog platform you’re
working with? I’m planning to start my own blog in the near future but I’m having
a difficult time deciding between BlogEngine/Wordpress/B2evolution and Drupal.
The reason I ask is because your design and style seems different
then most blogs and I’m looking for something unique.
P.S My apologies for getting off-topic but I had to ask!
Do you mind if I quote a few of your articles as long as I provide credit and sources
back to your webpage? My website is in the exact same niche as yours and my users would really benefit from a lot of the information you provide here.
Please let me know if this alright with you. Regards!
Admiring the commitment you put into your site
and detailed information you offer. It’s awesome
to come across a blog every once in a while that isn’t
the same old rehashed material. Great read!
I’ve saved your site and I’m adding your RSS feeds to my Google account.
Thank you for the auspicious writeup. It in fact used to be a entertainment account
it. Glance complex to far brought agreeable from you!
However, how could we be in contact?
This post is priceless. Where can I find out more?
Excellent way of describing, and good paragraph to take data about my presentation subject matter,
which i am going to present in academy.
My brother recommended I might like this blog. He was entirely
right. This post truly made my day. You cann’t imagine
simply how much time I had spent for this information! Thanks!
Hi there! This is kind of off topic but I need some help from
an established blog. Is it very hard to set
up your own blog? I’m not very techincal but I
can figure things out pretty fast. I’m thinking about
setting up my own but I’m not sure where to start. Do
you have any points or suggestions? Thank you
Hello I am so thrilled I found your site, I really found you by accident, while I was browsing on Yahoo for
something else, Regardless I am here now and would just like
to say kudos for a marvelous post and a all round enjoyable blog (I also love the theme/design), I
don’t have time to go through it all at the minute but I have saved it and also added in your RSS feeds, so when I have
time I will be back to read much more, Please do keep up
the great b.
Oyunlar, sanat etkinlikleri, doğa gezileri ve daha fazlası ile çocuklarınızı hem eğlendiriyor hem de öğrenmeye teşvik ediyoruz.
Hello! Do you know if they make any plugins to protect against hackers?
I’m kinda paranoid about losing everything I’ve worked hard on. Any
tips?
We’re a group of volunteers and starting a new scheme in our community.
Your website offered us with valuable info to work on. You have done a formidable job and
our entire community will be grateful to you.
Hi there to all, it’s actually a nice for me to pay a visit this site, it includes valuable Information.
Hello, just wanted to tell you, I liked this article.
It was funny. Keep on posting!
At this moment I am going away to do my breakfast,
after having my breakfast coming again to read more news.
This is my first time pay a visit at here and i am truly pleassant to read everthing at single
place.
hello!,I like your writing so a lot! proportion we communicate extra about your article on AOL?
I require an expert on this house to resolve my problem.
Maybe that is you! Looking forward to look you.
Wonderful work! This is the type of information that are meant
to be shared across the net. Shame on the search engines for
not positioning this post higher! Come on over and discuss with my website
. Thank you =)
What’s Going down i am new to this, I stumbled upon this I’ve
found It positively useful and it has helped me out loads.
I am hoping to contribute & help other customers like its aided me.
Good job.
Hi there to all, because I am in fact keen of reading this web site’s post to be
updated on a regular basis. It contains nice data.
Özel güvenlik kıyafetleri, halkın güven algısını şekillendiren en güçlü simgelerden biridir.
Link exchange is nothing else however it is only placing the other person’s
blog link on your page at appropriate place and other person will also do similar for you.
Kurumsal firmalar için özel güvenlik kıyafetleri, markanın sahadaki prestijini destekler.
Admiring the time and effort you put into your blog and detailed information you offer!..
Hello, everything is going sound here and ofcourse every one is sharing facts, that’s in fact good, keep up writing.