近两年由于陷入鸡娃的泥沼不能自拔，所以护肤、看电影还有这个公众号什么的都无暇顾及。说是“鸡娃”是抬举自己了，顶多就是努力跟上大部队的步伐~~~从来不以娃为中心的我，这几年将“以娃喜，以娃悲”发挥到及至，娃考好了，请吃饭；娃没考好，拉着人家絮絮叨叨的抒发半天心里的郁闷。搞得大家都以为我是有多重视学习，多功利的一个妈妈~~~
其实学习成绩从来不是我的评价体系里最重要的一项指标。在分数最为重要的学生时期，别人是想着提高分数，我天天想的和做的是怎样全面发展，不让人觉得自己是个只会读书的书呆子。所以对于自己的娃，我教育的底线是至少不成为思想狭隘、自私和自我为中心的人。但是这些都需要具有一定的学习能力，才能扩展自己对世界上人和事的认识，从而不会成为我最担心的那类人。这是我一直想跟娃说但是又担心说不清楚的事情。正好最近娃看了我给她买的一本儿童哲学书，尽然天天开始担心自己会死，担心到平日倒床就睡的人睡不着觉，还问我“既然人都要死的，那活着还有什么意义呢？”这真是难为我这种钢铁理科生了。于是找了好多书看，而这本“你想活出怎样的人生”就是批着心里鸡汤类的外衣，但是讲的却是异常质朴，并且我十分认同的原则性的生而为人真正重要的东西。
关于学习：
“……无论是谁，个人经验总是有限的。人类拥有语言，因此可以将自己的经验分享给他人，也可以倾听了解他人的经验。而且人类发明了文字，可以通过书籍互相传递经验，并对比不同的人在不同场合的经验，从各方面汇总。这样尽可能多方面地汇总经验，以不冲突的方式整合在一起，就是做学问。可以说，各种学问都是将人类至今为止的经验汇总起来形成的。人们从前一个时代继承经验，在此基础上再积累新的经验，才能从与野兽无异的状态进化到今天。如果每个人都像猿猴一样重新再来一遍，就永远都会和猿猴一样，绝对无法达到今天的文明。因此我们要尽可能钻研学问，从人类积累至今的经验中获得知识，否则耗费再大的精力也没用。在此基础上，竭尽全力解决人类发展至今仍然无法解决的问题，在这样的条件下产生的发现，オ是人类真正的发现，才能被称为伟大。” 我想你已经明白了学习的必要性，不需要我再多说什么了。如果想获得伟大的发现，首要任务就是拼命学习，登上这个时代的学问顶峰，然后在顶峰上工作。但是，为了在顶峰上工作，为了登上顶峰。小哥白尼，你要牢记，不能丢失你半夜醒来后对疑问穷追不含的精神。
关于看待事物的方法：
“人习惯以自己为中心思考、判断事物；即使长大了，这种特性同样根深蒂固。等你长大了就会明白，在广大的世界上，能完全改掉以自己为中心思考的习惯的人，其实非常稀少。尤其碰到事关利害得失的时候，要跳脱自己的立场作出正确的判断，实在很难。面对利害得失如果还能抱持像哥白尼那样的想法，可说是非常了不起。大多数人往往陷入自私的想法，所以看不清真相，只看得到对自己有利的事。 如果人一直坚信地球是宇宙的中心，恐怕就无法了解宇宙真正的样貌；同样地，总是以自我为中心判断事物，也会让人不了解周遭事物的真相。这种人一定看不清重大的真理。平时我们当然会说是太阳升起、落下。有关这些日常的事物，按照习惯这么说并无大碍。不过，如果想了解宇宙的重大真理，就得舍弃那样得想法。世上其他事物其实也一样。”
关于对人的看法：
“重要的不是世俗的眼光或其他，而是你自己必须从灵魂深处了解人到底是什么地方了不起。然后，必须激发自己的向上心，打从心底想成为了不起的人。好事就是好事，坏事就是坏事，逐一判断好坏的时候，以及做你判断的好事的时候，都得贯彻从你胸中涌现的热切的情感。我并不是要模仿北见的口头禅，不过你必须有［不管谁怎么说］的决心。 如果你不这么做，即使我和你母亲期望你成为了不起的人，即使你自己也想成为了不起的人，恐怕你只能成为［看起来了不起的人］，不能成为真正［了不起的人］。世界上有许多人喜欢表现得让别人觉得他们很了不起，这些人最在意别人怎么看自己，总是忽略了真正的自己、原来的自己是什么样的人。我不希望你成为这样的人。 所以，小哥白尼，我再重复一次，你必须珍惜自己的感受和深深感动的事。不要忘记这些事，而且要认真思考这些事的意义。”
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“小哥白尼，随着你长大成人，你会渐渐知道：贫穷的人在生活中基本上都很自卑。褴楼的衣衫、脏乱的家，还有每天简单的食物，都很容易就让他们无地自容。当然，也有生来贫穷但依然很自信的高尚入士，但在这世上，很多人都会在有钱人面前完全抬不起头来，好像自己低人一等，只会胡乱点头哈腰。这种人自然得不到别人的尊重，倒不是因为他们没钱，而是因为他们卑怯的性格，受人蔑视也没办法。但是，小哥白尼，就算是自導心很强的人，一旦陷入贫穷，也会因某些事而感到自卑，这是人之常情。所以，我们不要忘记时时谨言慎行，以免让他们感到自卑。对于人来说，再没有什么比自尊心受伤更糟糕的体验了。贫穷的人常会有那样糟糕的体验，因此千万不能在无意中伤害他们容易受伤的自尊心。 从道理上说，就算贫穷，也不应该因此而自卑。人真正的价值并不存在于穿着、住宅和食物中。无论穿着多么名贵的衣服、住着多么奢华的宅邸，笨蛋就是笨蛋，小人就是小人，作为人的价值不会因此而提高。若是心灵高洁、博学多闻的人，即使贫穷、也是值得尊敬的、了不起的人。因此，若人为自己拥有的价值抱有真正的自信，那么无论境遇如何，都可以生得心如止水。作为人，在贫穷的境中不该看低自己，在富移的生活中也不要自以为是。自始至终，我们都必须着眼于自己作为人的价值。如果还因贫穷而自卑，就证明作为人还远未合格。”
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واقعیتی که وجود دارد این است که بهترین متخصص زنان
و زایمان کسی است که دوره هایی آکادمیک را در مراکز و دانشگاه ها در زمینه تمام بیماری هایی که زنانه محسوب می شوند و نیز
روش های تشخیصی و درمانی آنها می آموزند.
اگر به هر دلیلی زایمان طبیعی برای مادر مشکل باشد مثلا
تنگ بودن لگن، وضعیت بد قرارگیری جنین و یا
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طبیعی، ممکن است زایمان سزارین توصیه گردد.
در حقیقت بهترین متخصص زنان برای سزارین کسی است که تمامی جوانب را
بررسی کند و مطمئن شود که زایمان طبیعی برای مادر و فرزند خطرناک است تا بتواند جراحی سزارین را تجویز کند.
هنگامی که زوجین تصمیم به بارداری دارند باید حدودا سه ماه قبل از اقدام به بارداری به
بهترین متخصص زنان و زایمانجهت معاینه، آزمایش پاپ اسمیر
و سایر تست های لازم، مراجعه کنند.
پس از آزمایش، پزشک باید تشخیص دهد که آیا
به تزریق واکسن سرخچه یا هپاتیت نیاز
دارند یا خیر. به طور کلی قبل از بارداری
واکسن های لازم باید تزریق شود و
نیز خوردن اسید فولیک، سه ماه قبل از بارداری آغاز گردد.
در لابیاپلاستی بدفرمی و ایرادات ظاهری
لابیاها بنا به تشخیص پزشک متخصص به نحوی برطرف می
شود که موجب زیبایی و جوانسازی این ناحیه می گردد.
در صورتی که بهترین متخصص زنان این عمل را به انجام
برساند، انتظار بروز هیچ گون هعوارضی را نخواهیم
داشت. پزشکی زنان یا بیماری‌های زنان و زایمان، یکی از رشته‌های تخصصی پزشکی میباشد.
تشخیص و درمان بیماری‌های زنان مانند قاعدگی دردناک، اختلالات قاعدگی، سرطانهای رحم، سرطان تخمدان، سرطان دهانه رحم، سرطان واژن، نزدیکی دردناک، کیست تخمدان،
پیچ‌خوردگی تخمدان، عفونت دستگاه تناسلی (واژینیت) و …
دکتر نگین محبوب، دوره دکترای حرفه ای در رشته پزشکی و دوره تخصصی پزشکی- جراح و متخصص
زنان،زایمان و نازایی را در دانشگاه علوم پزشکی تهران گذرانده است.
اغلب اوقات این جراحی با تنگ کردن واژن یکسان انگاشته می شود اما
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می تواند پاره و یا دچار افتادگی
شود. عمل پرینورافی برای رفع این مشکل، اغلب به صورت همزمان با
عمل واژینوپلاستی صورت می گیرد.
هیستروسکوپی نیز به وسیله دوربین انجام
می گیرد؛ با این تفاوت که
داخل رحم را مورد بررسی قرار می دهد.
این روش زمانی که بیمار پولیپ یا خونریزی های شدید داشته باشد یا دچار بیماری های مربوط به
داخل رحم و آندومتر باشد، بسیار کاربردی است.
سایت برترین پزشک یکی از سایت های معرفی دکتر و پزشک در کلیه زمینه های پزشکی
میباشد.
یک دختر خانمی که به سن بلوغ می رسد، فرآیند تخمک گذاری برای او شروع می شود و
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تعدادی از دکترهای زنان ترجیح می‌دهند فقط
در یکی از این رشته‌ها کار کنند و وارد رشته‌ی دیگر نشوند.
مثلا عده‌ای از دکترهای زنان
تعداد در مسائل بهداشتی زنان ورود
می‌کنند و کاری به حاملگی و زایمان ندارند.
برای رهایی از درد و درمان بیماری خود
می‌توانید از لیست بهترین پزشکان متخصص زنان،
زایمان و نازایی نوبت دریافت کنید.
دکتر لیلا تدین دوره دکترای عمومی خود را
در دانشگاه علوم پزشکی استان تهران گذرانده
و مدرک تخصصی جراحی زنان و زایمان را نیز از همین
دانشگاه اخذ نموده اند. ایشان در زمینه انواع جراحی های درمانی
و خدمات زیبایی زنان، تجربه و مهارت فراوانی دارند که می توانند به شما عزیزان
کمک کنند. اغلب اوقات وقتی می گوییم جراحی زیبایی واژن
منظورمان عمل لابیاپلاستی است.
این عمل زیبایی یکی از معروف ترین و پر طرفدارترین جراحی های
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